Purchased pioneered a 10-session curriculum called Thrive for parents and guardians of trafficked youth. Thrive covers a variety of topics centering on the themes of understanding human trafficking and trauma, relationship, and safety in a confidential and non-judgmental group setting with other parents and guardians.

Margaret and Violet on Thrive

Last week we shared with you “Violet’s” ALLIES experience. This week, we are going to introduce you to “Margaret”, Violet’s mom. Margaret participated in Thrive as a parent of an at-risk youth. Although Margaret was upset and hated going at first, she was going to do whatever she had to do for her family. After the first night, she thought to herself, “This isn’t so bad.” And to her own surprise she found herself looking forward to the classes each week.

She remembers thinking Jessica (founder and facilitator) was amazing. Despite the fact Margaret was very uncomfortable about attending and was most definitely shy and quiet, Jessica made her feel welcome. Margaret could tell Jessica took notice that she was paying attention even though she had no desire to speak. Margaret was thankful that Jessica was very kind and understanding with her throughout the 10-weeks.

Thrive was definitely an eye-opening experience for Margaret. She learned about things and situations she had never thought about. Her mind was opened to a whole new way of looking at life. She has a better understanding for some things she had not understood before. Margaret found herself getting emotional at a couple meetings, but also knew it was good to let it out.

Margaret said, “I learned a lot from Thrive and I feel like it helped me become a better mom. It helped me understand things and taught me how to be helpful to someone who has been traumatized.” Margaret also learned the importance of caring for herself.

Violet shared how much her mom enjoyed participating in Thrive and noticed she had begun applying the principles learned toward parenting at home. Violet knew her mom’s time in the group was special to Margaret because she had received a candle in a gift pack upon completion of the classes, and she has yet to light the candle. Margaret has a tendency not to use the things that mean the most to her.

Of all the information Margaret gleaned throughout Thrive, there were two takeaways which stuck out the most and encouraged her to see things with a new perspective. Margaret now understands how triggers can come about from traumatic experiences…this is something that had never crossed her mind before. Margaret also learned the significance of self-care and the importance it plays not only for her but for her loved ones.

Margaret said she would definitely recommend Thrive to other parents/guardians as it is helpful in so many ways. It may help them have a different viewpoint, much like she does now. To Margaret, “it was just an all-around good experience and life lesson for me. I believe in the Thrive program.”

Margaret closed with this, “I am more than thrilled that “Violet” has been able to be part of the ALLIES program. It’s been great for her and given her lots to look forward to. I love that she was able to participate in the job readiness course. I believe it’s definitely playing a big part of her life.”

She continues to say, “I am mostly grateful for Amanda(ALLIES Coach) and “Joann” (ALLIES Mentor). You guys have been AMAZING in helping us in many ways. Violet loves you both. Joann has been such a good friend to Violet and so helpful to our whole family. I’m just so grateful to have such great women lending a helping hand in making my baby girl a strong independent young woman. I know she looks up to both of you and I couldn’t be more happy to have the extra help. We are very blessed to have you ladies in our lives now. I’m truly thankful to both of you!”